Best things

We’ve all seen or heard the quote “the best things in life aren’t things.” The other day as Christopher sat in therapy for over 2 minutes using his arms for stability I nearly started crying. I thought about that quote as I smiled and hoped that we continue to experience a “non-thing” over and over again. After 2 years of constant therapy he was finally sitting for longer than a few seconds unassisted.

To describe my pride and joy is nearly impossible. I called my husband and immediately texted him the video. I posted it to Facebook. Twice. I wanted to tell every person at the grocery store and the Target employee that my son, who is nearly 3, is able to sit for a few minutes. I felt like I was glowing with excitement, sort of like when you get your engagement ring and can’t stop staring at it as it sparkles in the sun while driving. Then you go to Target to buy wedding magazines and just hope the cashier asks you about your engagement as she scans your purchases. You are bursting with excitement and want to share with everyone! I was so proud of him. Proud of us.

When I shared his video to Facebook my excitement was met with more cheers and joy from family and friends who are just as thrilled for him. People who follow his journey and did happy dances for us in their own homes. We received private messages of congratulations and “likes” and comments on his 2 minute video. I can only hope that everyone who watched our video felt the same as I did. “The best things in life aren’t things.” That video. That moment. 280 therapy appointments last year plus a 3 week intensive all led up to 2 minutes.

The best things in life are moments. The best things in life are 2 minute videos of your amazing little boy sitting.

The best things in life are you. This is a long hard journey and we couldn’t do it without you. Whether you silently read, openly comment, share, or don’t share. I appreciate you. I have always said that the more people who love your child the better. We appreciate you for loving our child and for celebrating our moments with us.

The best things in life truly are not things.